Why we prefer the warmth of the Inn to the reality of the Manger
The Default Mode
We naturally gravitate toward comfort. We want the seat on the couch, not the spot at the sink doing dishes. We want the conversation with the cousin who agrees with us, not the uncle who challenges us. We look at the "messy" parts of our lives in all their awkwardness, fatigue, and rejection as things to be solved or escaped. We assume that if we are uncomfortable, something is wrong.
The Carmelite Shift
Christ ordained Himself to be born in a stable. Bishop Sheen noted that the saddest moment in history was "there was no room at the inn." But consider this: the Inn was warm. The Inn was full of people. The Inn was comfortable. And the Inn missed the Incarnation entirely.
Here is the hard question you need to answer this weekend: Where in your life are you demanding comfort at the expense of charity?
Are you refusing to sit next to the "difficult" relative? Are you avoiding the "poverty" of doing the invisible work (cooking, cleaning) while others relax? St. Thérèse of Lisieux didn't fake her way through interactions with difficult nuns; she treated the annoyance itself as her poverty. She offered it up. The very feeling of "I don't like this" is the straw in your manger. If you strip away all the discomfort, you might find you’ve also stripped away the place where Christ intends to lay His head.
The Bridge
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